I've figured it out....
- Oh yes... I hear your doubt from here...
Women want someone to fight with!
I know think I'm out of my tree but just think about it... the conflict takes different forms but its always there... and if it isn't the relationship is doomed to fail or fizzle...
First, the YnS. Yelling and Screaming are a main component of this type (obviously). The more intense the better, the more insignifcant the point the more it must be contested. Now I'm not talking violence here... words only... perhaps some throwing of small soft objects. The point is to work up energy and see who can have the last shot... It's not hurtful its a war of minds.
here's how guys luck out. They either give in thinking its going to endear them or they always fight to the death. We want to win sometimes and lose sometimes... it gives us something to look forward to next time.
Next the PA. Some girls need the Passive Agressive approach. I'm not talking about the "if you don't know what's wrong I'm not going to tell you" .. heck that even shits me. No I mean someone who tests how much a guy will give in to them. They take pleasure in finding a boundary and searching for a new one. Pretend to be hurt if you don't give in on a point (once again not a life or death but still important) and see how easily you cave. Onc again a door mat just gives us the win which is fun for a while but gets boring if there's no variety.
Stay tuned... more to come...
